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THE BATTLE RAGES: MY BROTHERS TOOK A KNIFE TO MY THROAT TO KILL ME – EMMANUEL ADEBAYOR

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SEA: if I decide to bring out the Part 3 today, it is because my brother @Kola Adebayor and my other siblings have decided to talk about our family issues on social medias, through letters to my club, radios…I could write an autobiography and sell it but I decided to share with you here.

25 years ago, my big older brother Kola went to Germany and he became the hope of our family. We all thought he could change the way we were living. Years after he left Togo, we still had no electricity and no phones. If he wanted to talk to us, he would call the Atlantic Hotel that was very close to our house. We would then run to the hotel reception and talk to him.

When I got the opportunity to go play football in France for the first time, we needed money to for the flight tickets and other expenses. My brother was nowhere to be found. Only God knows what he was doing in Germany.
When I arrived in France, I did all the paperwork with my team and they allowed me to stay in the academy. A few months later, my brother wanted to come visit me. I was running out of money and I was living at the academy. Therefore, I had to borrow money so I could pay for his hotel. At that time, my teammate Sega N’diaye from Cameroon was kind enough to lend me some money. I also had to borrow some more money because I had to give my brother some money for his trip back to Germany. Keep in mind he is my older brother.

A couple years later, things started to get better. Thank God, I signed a contract with Metz. Since then, my brother would contact me whenever it was time to pay his bills. Sometimes, he would say his son is sick… I had to get used to all this.

Again, I was lucky enough to get an offer from Monaco and I signed for the football club. One day, Kola and the late Peter Adebayor came to visit me in Monaco. My two brothers did not let me know they were coming. Someone said “blood is thicker than water” so I took them in. They arrived early in the morning and I was on my way to training. When I came back home, we had a discussion and they wanted to start a car business. Obviously, it involves a lot of money. I told them that I could help them out as soon as I get paid next. At that time, Thierry Mangwa was staying in my apartment because he was struggling with some personal issues and needed a place to stay. One day, I came back from training and he was crying. He never told me why. My brothers could also not explain. Another day, one of my friends Padjoe came to visit me and as he was leaving the house, I believe I offered him about €500. My brother Kola noticed that and was very upset. He was trying to understand why I gave my friend some money right away but not him. My reason was very simple; the money he (Kola) needed was a huge amount of money that I did not carry in my house. We went on and had an argument about it.

Another day, after training…I was very tired and decided to go take a nap. I woke up and a knife was held to my throat. As I opened my eyes, both of my brothers were there. They were shouting and they claimed that I was wasting their time. Peter was going mad and Kola was supporting. I asked them: “Is this the only way to solve this issue? I yes, then kill me and take the money”. It’s only at that moment that he put the knife down. After all this, I found a way out of my own apartment and I called my parents. My mom suggested that I call the police. That was the only way for me to get back into my house safely… I had training the next day, by the way. So I did what my mom said. Police came and they settled down. Again, “blood is thicker than water”, so I let it go. A few days after, Peter went to visit one of Kola’s friends in Paris. That means I was left in the house with Kola; for my own safety, I found a way to get him the money as soon as I could. Only God knows how much I gave him that day.

A few months after all this, I went back to Togo and I was surprised when my mom started to ask me why I called the police on my brothers, she continued and said I am the bad person in the family. That is another story I will leave for later…

Every time I went back home, everyone kept asking me why my brother never visited after all these years. Immediately, I organized a flight for him and he came back to visit the family, at my own expenses.

On April 22nd 2005, we received some bad news. I received a call and they announced that my father passed away. I was devastated. I called my big brother and told him that we all have to be there. Again I made sure there was a flight ticket ready for him. We all went back home and I took care of everything. A long time before my dad died, he was in the hospital one day and he asked me to make sure his funeral is not a moment of sadness. He wanted us to celebrate his life. I leave it to God to decide if the funeral I organized for my dad was what he wanted. The man who calls himself the “big man” in the family did not contribute to anything. But he still has the boldness to say I do not take care of this family.

In 2006, I had another big opportunity to go play for Arsenal. Since then, my brother has started to come up with series of false accusations against me.

On July 22nd, 2013 sad news hit us in the family. My brother Peter Adebayor passed away. His death was sad and I was affected by it. One thing I find difficult to swallow today is that Kola was accusing me of Peter’s death. He is saying that the shop I opened for Peter was not good enough. He kept texting saying that my career would be destroyed. I did everything for Peter when he was alive, I brought him to Metz, and Monaco with me. What can Kola say that he has done for Peter? Nothing. The man did not even show up at the funeral even after all the money I sent for the trip back home.

He is saying that I also made my mom suffer, but he forgot that when he was in Germany, at some point I was the one always by my mom’s side. As soon as I started to make a living with football, I did everything you could imagine for our mom. That is normal. But my brother is never satisfied. He said I bought a shitty car for my mom. Why can’t he buy a better one? All I want from him is to take his responsibilities. Since I am not doing it right, he should show the example as a big brother. He has been in Germany for more than 20 years, but he never brought our mother there to visit. Even to go back home for a visit is another struggle. All he keeps saying is that my father said I should build a house for each one of them. I don’t think my father said that. Does that even make sense for him or anyone? As a big brother, he is supposed to be doing all that I am doing for the family. He should stop hiding and take his responsibilities. When he came to Europe, he was young enough to become a football player too. Anyways, some people are drivers here but they are able to take care of their families. They even bring their parents and other family members. Why has he not done anything like that but he keeps talking? As a matter fact, he should at least bring Rotimi, Bidemi or his own son Aziz here before talking about “taking care of the family”. Actions are louder than speeches.

A lot of people are saying that I never went to school, but they forget that it is because we could not afford it. I never blamed my parents for that. But thank God, today I am able to speak more than 3 languages and I can send my daughter to school. I am proud of that. People can accuse me for not going to school, but in the end it is all about who you become and what you teach yourself. It is also about what life teaches you and what you learn from it.

Many times I wanted to give up. Ask my sister Iyabo Adebayor how many times I have called and was ready to commit suicide? I kept these stories for years… But If I die, no one would know my story, no one would learn from it… Some people say I should keep these stories private, but someone has to sacrifice himself; someone has to talk about it. I know people would relate to my story and others would learn from it. For every one who knows me, I’d do anything for my country and my people.

Final message from the younger brother to the older brother: Quit Smoking and Quit Drinking. That was my story.

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Army Builds Schools, Town Halls as Questions Grow Over Nigeria’s Deepening Security Crisis

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As Nigeria continues to battle kidnappings, banditry, insurgency and violent attacks across several states, the Nigerian Army has shifted part of its public engagement toward community development, unveiling schools, town halls, boreholes and other infrastructure under its Civil-Military Cooperation (CIMIC) programme.


The Army says it has now completed more than 250 intervention projects nationwide, including schools, hospitals, roads, ICT centres, solar-powered facilities and water projects. The announcement came during the 163rd Nigerian Army Day Celebration (NADCEL 2026) in Rivers State, where Chief of Army Staff, Lieutenant General Waidi Shaibu, commissioned four new projects across the state’s three senatorial districts.


According to SecretsReporters‘ analysis, the Army’s expanding role in providing public infrastructure reflects a significant evolution in its relationship with civilians. While such interventions may improve public goodwill, they also expose a difficult reality: many communities are celebrating projects that ordinarily fall within the constitutional responsibilities of local, state and federal government institutions.


SecretsReporters further observes that although schools, boreholes and community halls can improve the lives of residents, they cannot replace the primary expectation Nigerians have of the military protecting lives, securing communities and restoring confidence in areas where criminal violence has become routine. Across many parts of the country, citizens continue to measure security agencies not by the number of projects commissioned but by whether they can travel safely, farm without fear and sleep without the threat of attacks.


The four projects commissioned in Rivers include the renovation of Community Secondary School, Obio/Akpor, Community Secondary School in Lueku, Khana Local Government Area, the reconstruction of a Community Town Hall in Oyigbo Local Government Area and the installation of a solar-powered borehole in Degema Local Government Area.


Speaking during the commissioning, Lieutenant General Shaibu said the projects demonstrate the Army’s commitment to complementing military operations with initiatives that directly improve the lives of citizens. He argued that lasting national security cannot be achieved through military action alone and described the Army’s Civil-Military Cooperation programme as a strategic platform for building confidence between soldiers and host communities.


The Army Chief disclosed that more than 250 intervention projects have now been completed across Nigeria, covering hospitals, classroom blocks, roads, ICT centers, solar lighting systems and water supply facilities. He urged benefiting communities to protect the projects and acknowledged President Bola Ahmed Tinubu for supporting the Army’s operational activities.
Earlier, the Chief of Civil-Military Affairs, Major General Musa Etsu-Ndagi, said the Rivers projects were deliberately distributed across the state’s three senatorial districts to ensure wider community impact.


Chairman of Obio/Akpor Local Government Area, Honourable Gift Worlu, welcomed the intervention, describing the renovated schools as a boost to education within the council.
For SecretsReporters, however, the larger issue extends beyond the ribbon-cutting ceremony. The growing visibility of military-led community projects raises broader questions about governance, institutional boundaries and public accountability. While civil-military cooperation is recognized globally as a tool for strengthening trust between armed forces and civilians, it is not designed to substitute for effective governance or diminish the military’s constitutional responsibility to defend the country.


The latest intervention also comes at a time when security remains one of Nigeria’s most pressing national concerns. In several parts of the country, communities continue to experience attacks by armed groups, while thousands of citizens have been displaced and economic activities disrupted by persistent insecurity.

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Emem Usoro Scandal: Journalist Stanley Ugagbe Remanded in Kuje Prison Over Cybercrime Charges

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Journalist Stanley Ugagbe has been remanded at the Kuje Correctional Centre by the Federal High Court in Abuja following his arraignment on a six-count charge filed by the Inspector-General of Police over publications concerning the Deputy Governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), Emem Usoro.

Ugagbe was arraigned before Justice Salim Olasupo Ibrahim on Monday morning, where the charges were read to him. Following the proceedings, the court ordered that he be remanded in the Kuje Correctional Centre and adjourned the case until September 21st for trial.

The development marks the latest chapter in a case that has drawn attention from journalists and press freedom advocates nationally and internationally following Ugagbe’s arrest and detention by the Nigeria Police Force.

The charges stem from criminal proceedings instituted by the Inspector-General of Police before the Federal High Court in Abuja, accusing Ugagbe and Fejiro Oliver of conspiracy, cyberstalking and defamation arising from a series of reports titled “Exclusive: CBN Deputy Governor Emem Nnana Usoro Hides N1.4 Billion California Luxury Condo in Asset Declaration Scandal – Part 1”; “EXCLUSIVE: CBN Deputy Governor Emem Usoro Linked to N3.6bn Los Angeles Property Amid Questions Over Asset Declaration Compliance (Part 2)” published on SecretsReporters.

According to the charge sheet, the prosecution alleged that the defendants conspired to commit cyberstalking contrary to the Cybercrimes (Prohibition, Prevention, etc.) Act, 2015 (as amended in 2024). The police further accused Ugagbe of publishing stories alleging that the CBN deputy governor concealed a luxury property in California in her asset declaration, was linked to a multi-billion naira property in Los Angeles, and published another report concerning her personal life. The prosecution contended that the publications were false and constituted cyberstalking and defamation under the Cybercrimes Act and the Penal Code.

With the court now ordering his remand at the Kuje Correctional Centre, Ugagbe will remain in custody pending the next hearing, which has been fixed for September. The court is expected to consider issues relating to his bail and continue proceedings on the substantive charges at the adjourned date.

Recall that Ugagbe’s ordeal began on July 1, 2026, when armed men reportedly abducted him on his way home from work. The operatives confiscated his mobile phones and laptop before taking him away in an unmarked vehicle. For several days, neither his family nor his employer knew his whereabouts.

His disappearance sparked widespread condemnation from media organizations, including the Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ), which demanded that security agencies disclose his whereabouts, grant him access to his family and legal representatives, and either charge him before a competent court or release him.

International organizations also reacted. The Committee to Protect Journalists (CPJ) called on Nigerian authorities to investigate his disappearance and ensure his immediate safety, while the International Press Institute (IPI Nigeria) intervened in efforts that eventually led to his release from police custody.

Following his release on July 6, Ugagbe was granted bail while police reportedly continued investigating allegations, including espionage, cyberstalking, and other computer-related offences.

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ICPC Probes News Agency of Nigeria Over Alleged Recruitment Irregularities After Secrets Reporters Expose

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The Independent Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Commission (ICPC) has commenced an investigation into alleged recruitment irregularities at the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), seeking records relating to the agency’s employment and staff regularisation exercises conducted between 2024 and 2026.

The development comes days after SecretsReporters publication, titled “Alleged Sexual Harassment, Recruitment Controversy Rock News Agency of Nigeria as Female Employee Questions Grade Level Placement”.

The anti-corruption agency has formally requested a comprehensive range of recruitment and personnel records from NAN as part of an ongoing investigation into possible violations of the Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Act, 2000.

In a letter dated July 6, 2026, and addressed to the Managing Director/Chief Executive Officer of NAN, the ICPC directed the agency to produce the requested documents and designate a competent officer to appear before investigators at the Commission’s headquarters in Abuja.

The letter, signed by the Director of Operations on behalf of the Chairman of the ICPC, stated that the request was made pursuant to Section 38 of the Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Act, 2000, which empowers the Commission to obtain documents and information required for the purpose of investigations.

According to the letter, investigators requested all records relating to NAN’s recruitment and staff regularisation exercises between 2024 and 2026.

The Commission specifically requested recruitment advertisements, eligibility and selection criteria, lists of shortlisted applicants, names of successful candidates, and minutes of meetings of committees involved in the recruitment process.

The ICPC also requested the personnel file of Ogunola Folashade Adunni, together with any additional information that could assist investigators in determining whether due process was followed during the recruitment exercise.

Part of the letter reads: “This Commission is investigating an alleged violation of the Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Act, 2000 and it has become necessary to obtain certain documents/information from your office.”

It further directed NAN to ensure that a competent officer appeared before investigators with all relevant recruitment and personnel records requested by the Commission.

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